You have 2 choices

"Life is always all about the choices.

 When you cut away all the junk every situation is a choice.

You choose how you react to situations.

You choose how people will affect your mood.

You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.

It's your choice how you live your life."

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Jonathan is the manager of a restaurant. He is always in a good mood.
When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply:
"If i were any better, i would be twins."


Many of the waiters at his restaurant quite their jobs when he changed the jobs,

so they could follow him around from restaurant to restaurant.

Why?Because he was a natural motivator.

If an employee was having a bad day, Jonathan was always be there, 

telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day i went up to Jonathan and asked him:

"I don't get it! No one can be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"

Jonathan replied,

 "Each morning i wake up and i say to myself, i have 2 choices today.

 I can choose to be in a good mood or i can choose to be in a bad mood.

Each time something bad happens, i can choose to be victim or i can choose to learn from it.

I always choose to learn from it.

Every time someone come to me complaining,

 I can choose to accept their complaining or i can point out the positive side of life.

I always choose choose the positive side of life."

"But it's not always that easy," i protested.

"Yes, it is," Jonathan said.

Several years later, I heard that Jonathan accidentally did something you are never supposed to do in the restaurant. He left the back door of his restaurant open.

In the morning, he was robbed by three armed men.

While Jonathan trying to open the safety box, his hand shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him.

Luckily, Jonathan was found quickly and rushed to hospital. 

After 18 hours surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jonathan was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body...

I saw Jonathan about six month later after the accident.

When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Want to see my scars?"

I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.

"The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door. Then, after they shot me, as i lay on the flood, I remembered that I have 2 choose: I could choose to live or choose to die. I choose to live," Jonathan replied.

"Weren't you scared," I asked.

Jonathan continue, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and i saw the expression on the faces of doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read "He's a dead man." I knew  i needed to take action."

"What did you do," I asked.

"Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me. She asked if I was allergic to anything." Jonathan said.

"Yes, I replied.  The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited to my reply.

 I took a big breath and yelled,"Bullets!"

Over their laughter, 

I told them, ' I am choose to live. Please operate on me as If I am alive, not dead.' "

Jonathan lived and thanks to skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

I learned from him that everyday you have the choice to either enjoy your life or to hate it.

The only thing that is truly yours, that no one can control or take from you -- is YOUR ATTITUDE!!

So, if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.

OK!! Now you have 2 choose to Make:

1. Leave the message after read it
2. Sharing it to someone you care about.

I hope you will choose #2  !!   =)

Leadership

 
There are 3 categories of people:

1. Those who make things happen,
2. Those who watch things happen,
3. Those who ask 'What happened?'

For the first group, he/she always take the lead and opportunity to make something happen.
And the second categoris person, he/she is a follower. They always find some mentor or leader to follow them.

For last group persons, they stiil not willing to change and shape their life. They always waiting!!Waiting to get the winning lottery or any lucky matter happen!!

Are you ready? What are you going to do with your life is entirely your choice?

Just ask yourself what life you want to shape and willing to own?

『Video』 Harmony

What do you hope for  new year?
Wealth, success or peace?

Story by: Ven. Master Hsing Yun

Time is Miracle!!

Tell u a good news!!"TIME" is unstealable.
No one can take it from you and the supply will never be withheld from you.

But, bad news is you cannot draw out the future.
Have you ever think about you have to live on the twenty-four hours of daily time with "MEANING"?



Life is short, just remind Yourself that your life begins now:

1. Be willing to change, you need to make some changes in the way you do things, such as simplied your life, financial control and etc.
2. Develop relationships with the people you love to form a winning relationship. Plan and organised the time just belong to your family or your couple.
3. Don't forget to have fun of daily time. Try something new, or an willingness to do something differently, that is nice!!

Anyway, i am not point out that How you "live" to but the wise balancing life is depend on how "TIME" you use.

A psalm of David - Psalm 23

The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. 

He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,for his name's sake. he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness

 Even though I walk  through the valley of the shadow of death, 

I will fear no evil,  for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. 

You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, 

and I will dwell in the house of the LORD  forever. 

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Whenever i feel frustrated, i'll be reading the psalm.

If you trust in GOD, i would like to say that "YOU ARE NOT ALONE. "

Motivate yourself for your work

What is the best way to motivate yourself for your daily work??

1. Enjoying your work
• When you act as if you love what you do, the positive energy will keeps your interest and focus your work.
•  When we are passionate about what we do, joyful life is just around corner with you.
2.  Having a clear vision
• Keep a clear head stay focused on what you want to achieve!
• What gives us the most energy is the feeling of being totally on top of our work.
3. Work on "KNOWING"
• You may able to explain or articulate why you need to do with your window, common sense, guidance.
• Guiding you in a direction and the path will be clear.

『News』 Learning to sail the ship instead of afraid of storms.

News Link: Armless girl’s struggle a moral story to learn from | My Sinchew:

"ALOR SETAR, Kedah: The unwavering struggle of Huang Zhaoqian, a 7-year-old girl born without arms, to live her life and get an education has captured the attention of Malaysia’s Moral Education Curriculum Committee.

The committee intends to include her story in next year’s Standard One moral education textbook with the hope of encouraging other unfortunate people to live their lives courageously.

Little Zhaoqian and her mother Li Aiyun have agreed to the committee’s proposal. They hope Zhaoqian’s courage and spirit can inspire people not to get discouraged or give up in the face of adversity."

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Sometime we've already got everything we need but we always want more and more.

From the girl, i learn that we will never happy if we continue to search for what needs more than.

She is the best!!

Because she is learning to sail the ship instead of afraid of storms. =)

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

Sometimes we always waiting for the right time, right condition to achieve our target or dream.

But, I would like to tell you the bad news：However you are waiting how long, that is not be significantly different next week, next month or next year. Because that conditions or time have not to be prefect. 

What the truth is:

Becoming educated doesn’t happen in overnight,

but with your whole life to accumulate; 

Every dream is not achieve in short intervals,

 but with stay concentrate on your dream and “Just Begin”.