Earn the Extras

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Instead of wasting your energy yearning for the unattainable, 

why don't you do something to make them attainable?
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You already have a full time job, but find yourself living from paycheck to paycheck, wallet empty before the month ends. have you try to find some ingenious ways to earn some extra cash, while holding on to your day job?

1. Blogging
• Most of extra income by blogging is come by per click ads. Pay  per click ads reward you every time your reader clicks on the ads appearing on your blog. But, you must always take considerable time and effort to generate a lot of traffic to your blog, especially your blog must have a focus, and reach your target audience.
2. Be a real estate agent
• Nowadays, most buyers view houses on the weekends, this might just fit in with your full time job. Firstly, you must spend some time and money studying for and obtaining a realtor's license. After that, you must build up your network and portfolio of property. Basically what you put in is what you get out of it. 
3. Turn your hobby into cash
• If you spend your free time indulging in your hobby, why don't you find a way to turn your hobby into a moneymaking activity?
•  Example:
•  If you like play computer game, you can write the article to IT and gaming magazines. 
•  If you like photography, just help people to take photo in wedding dinner or event.

The above ways are some example of earn extra income to decrease your financial burden, but you have to be prepared to sacrifice some personal time.  Here's wishing you the best!!

Resigning Smart

Your LAST THANK YOU to your boss will be better remembered than
any minor not-so-positive things during your period in the organisation

As we know, leaving one's job is a rather delicate matter and it needs to be handled with care and proper professional etiquettes. Below are some do's and don'ts for you to make you graceful exit:

 DO'S 

1. Give enough notice 
• Set a reasonable notice period as a sign of loyalty and appreciation to your current employer.
2. Offer help
• If your replacement has already started, volunteer to train or work with your replacement to show him or her the ropes. This is part and parcel of a professional handover.
3. Tie up loose ends
• Always do your best to complete all open assignments and leave detailed progress reports for your replacement or supervisor and co-workers. If can, better leave your contact number to the new replacement so he or she can reach you in case there's follow-up needed.
4. End notes
• Be sure to get a fair settlement for any outstanding salary, vacation (and sick and personal) days and commission payments or other compensation due to you. 

 DON'TS 

1. Make drama queen exits
• Even if you hate your boss or have a problem with a difficult colleague, do resist the temptation to create scene. Don't criticize or try to give them a piece of your mind no matter how much you're tempted to.
2. Gloat to colleagues
• Never ever dangle your new job in front of your current colleagues. It's acceptable to seem excited over your new job but raving about how great it is while your colleagues are stuck at the current company is definitely asking for trouble.
3. Slack off
• You probably won't be handling any heavy projects but do continue to work as per routine and not disappear during the last weeks of the job. Avoid taking a short-timer's attitude or aligning yourself with any discontent co-workers.

English Learning

     

    "I listen and I forget.

      I see and I understand.

      I read and I remember."

If you want to learn english in fact and efficient way, train yourself first!

Don't be shy and timid, be bold!

Noted:

If you can speak, it means you can write.

If you can write, it doesn't mean you can speak

Always forced yourself speak fluently without stoppages. 

How to Motivate Yourself Daily | eHow.com

 

If you could look into your the minds of successful men and women you would discover a wealth of posity energy ~ thoughts of success and abundance, and a complete lack of doubt.They konw that the one aspect of life that they do have control over is their own thinking.

Are you always keep the positive thinking for yourself?

If you fail to understand the importance of your own thoughts in the process of creation, it will all be for naught.

That is the link of eHow.com, hope it can help you self-motivate from the inside out:
 How to Motivate Yourself Daily | eHow.com

『Video』God will make a way

Song Story: God Will Make A Way

From: Don Moen

Late one evening, Don Moen received a phone call with devastating news: his wife’s sister had lost her oldest son in an automobile accident. Craig and Susan Phelps and their four sons were traveling through Texas on their way to Colorado when their van was struck broadside by an eighteen-wheeler truck. All four boys were thrown from the van.

Craig and Susan located their sons by their cries, one boy was lying in the ditch, another in an area wet from melted snow. Nearby was his brother who landed by a telephone pole. All were seriously injured, but when Craig, a medical doctor, reached Jeremy, he found him lying by a fence post with his neck broken. There was nothing Craig could do to revive him.

When Don received the news of this tragedy a few hours later, he recalls, My whole world came to a standstill, but I had to get on a plane the next morning and fly to a recording session that had been scheduled for several weeks. Although I knew Craig and Susan were hurting, I couldn’t be with them until the day before the funeral.

During the flight the morning after the accident, God gave me a song for them: God will make a way where there seems to be no way. He works in ways we cannot see. He will make a way for me. The song was based upon Isaiah 43:19 NASB Behold, I will do something new, now it will spring forth; will you not be aware of it? I will even make a roadway in the wilderness, rivers in the desert.

This song would bring comfort to Craig and Susan when all hope seemed lost. It touched the hurt in their hearts with hope and encouragement. Don received a letter from Susan in which she quoted Isaiah 43:4 NASB: Since you are precious in My sight, since you are honored and I love you, I will give other men in your place and other peoples in exchange for your life.

Susan wrote, We’ve seen the truth of the scripture. When Jeremy’s friends learned that he had accepted Jesus into his life before he died, many of them began to ask their own parents how they could be assured of going to heaven when they died. The accident also prompted Craig and Susan into a deeper walk with the Lord as well as into new avenues of ministry. Craig began teaching Sunday school at their church and Susan became active in Women’s Aglow, sharing with various groups her story and the Lord’s provision in her time of sorrow.

She has since said, “The day of the accident, when I got out of the van, even before I knew our son was dead, I knew I had a choice. I could be bitter and angry or I could totally accept God and whatever He had for us. I had to make the decision fast. I’ve seen fruit come as a result of that choice. If I had to, I’d do it again. It’s worth knowing others will go to heaven because of what happened to Jeremy. God really did make a way for us!”

Are you a reader?

What power of reading is it? That quotes are shown as below:

“Today a reader, tomorrow a leader.” — Margaret Fuller

“We shouldn’t teach great books; we should teach a love of reading.” — B. F. Skinner

“You don’t have to burn books to destroy a culture. Just get people to stop reading them.” — Ray Bradbury

We must treat the reading as a natural extension of the own learning power because all about recognizing the human "voice" on another people's mind, their own stories and etc through the reading.

If you got the own children, you should try to spend the time reading to your children at bedtime. At that time, the children are more relaxed, reflective, and open to this form of communication.Most important, though, said Zuckerman, is that reading aloud is a period of shared attention and emotion between parent and child. This reinforces reading as a pleasurable activity.

"Children ultimately learn to love books because they are sharing it with someone they love," he said. The research is published in the journal Archives of Disease in Childhood.

At last, i hope that you are not only a reader, but also is Happy Reader.

When "Happy Reading" become a habit, "Reading" will become a living.

When "Happy Reading" become a habit, "Reading" will be a pleasure.

When "Happy Reading" become a habit, "Reading" will no longer need to call.

 

Manage the Stress

Here are some ways to manage stress and to get the best out a stressful situation.

1. THINK POSITIVE
• Remind yourself we can change the way we react towards it. You just take everything as a challenge and act it! Once you accomplish that task or target, you will be encouraged. Remember that keep the achievement in your diary to remind yourself of how you can do it the next time you feel discouraged.
2. SAY NO
• You must expected that something might away your perseverance but you do not feel obligated to take on everything. You must say no if you can't do it. Take it easy!!
3. JUST EXERCISE
• Regular exercise can help your body build resistance towards negative effects of psychological stress. Just move it, don't always keep waiting on!!

You have 2 choices

"Life is always all about the choices.

 When you cut away all the junk every situation is a choice.

You choose how you react to situations.

You choose how people will affect your mood.

You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.

It's your choice how you live your life."

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Jonathan is the manager of a restaurant. He is always in a good mood.
When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply:
"If i were any better, i would be twins."


Many of the waiters at his restaurant quite their jobs when he changed the jobs,

so they could follow him around from restaurant to restaurant.

Why?Because he was a natural motivator.

If an employee was having a bad day, Jonathan was always be there, 

telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day i went up to Jonathan and asked him:

"I don't get it! No one can be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"

Jonathan replied,

 "Each morning i wake up and i say to myself, i have 2 choices today.

 I can choose to be in a good mood or i can choose to be in a bad mood.

Each time something bad happens, i can choose to be victim or i can choose to learn from it.

I always choose to learn from it.

Every time someone come to me complaining,

 I can choose to accept their complaining or i can point out the positive side of life.

I always choose choose the positive side of life."

"But it's not always that easy," i protested.

"Yes, it is," Jonathan said.

Several years later, I heard that Jonathan accidentally did something you are never supposed to do in the restaurant. He left the back door of his restaurant open.

In the morning, he was robbed by three armed men.

While Jonathan trying to open the safety box, his hand shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him.

Luckily, Jonathan was found quickly and rushed to hospital. 

After 18 hours surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jonathan was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body...

I saw Jonathan about six month later after the accident.

When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Want to see my scars?"

I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.

"The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door. Then, after they shot me, as i lay on the flood, I remembered that I have 2 choose: I could choose to live or choose to die. I choose to live," Jonathan replied.

"Weren't you scared," I asked.

Jonathan continue, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and i saw the expression on the faces of doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read "He's a dead man." I knew  i needed to take action."

"What did you do," I asked.

"Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me. She asked if I was allergic to anything." Jonathan said.

"Yes, I replied.  The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited to my reply.

 I took a big breath and yelled,"Bullets!"

Over their laughter, 

I told them, ' I am choose to live. Please operate on me as If I am alive, not dead.' "

Jonathan lived and thanks to skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

I learned from him that everyday you have the choice to either enjoy your life or to hate it.

The only thing that is truly yours, that no one can control or take from you -- is YOUR ATTITUDE!!

So, if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.

OK!! Now you have 2 choose to Make:

1. Leave the message after read it
2. Sharing it to someone you care about.

I hope you will choose #2  !!   =)

Leadership

 
There are 3 categories of people:

1. Those who make things happen,
2. Those who watch things happen,
3. Those who ask 'What happened?'

For the first group, he/she always take the lead and opportunity to make something happen.
And the second categoris person, he/she is a follower. They always find some mentor or leader to follow them.

For last group persons, they stiil not willing to change and shape their life. They always waiting!!Waiting to get the winning lottery or any lucky matter happen!!

Are you ready? What are you going to do with your life is entirely your choice?

Just ask yourself what life you want to shape and willing to own?

『Video』 Harmony

What do you hope for  new year?
Wealth, success or peace?

Story by: Ven. Master Hsing Yun

Time is Miracle!!

Tell u a good news!!"TIME" is unstealable.
No one can take it from you and the supply will never be withheld from you.

But, bad news is you cannot draw out the future.
Have you ever think about you have to live on the twenty-four hours of daily time with "MEANING"?



Life is short, just remind Yourself that your life begins now:

1. Be willing to change, you need to make some changes in the way you do things, such as simplied your life, financial control and etc.
2. Develop relationships with the people you love to form a winning relationship. Plan and organised the time just belong to your family or your couple.
3. Don't forget to have fun of daily time. Try something new, or an willingness to do something differently, that is nice!!

Anyway, i am not point out that How you "live" to but the wise balancing life is depend on how "TIME" you use.

A psalm of David - Psalm 23

The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. 

He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,for his name's sake. he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness

 Even though I walk  through the valley of the shadow of death, 

I will fear no evil,  for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. 

You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, 

and I will dwell in the house of the LORD  forever. 

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Whenever i feel frustrated, i'll be reading the psalm.

If you trust in GOD, i would like to say that "YOU ARE NOT ALONE. "

Motivate yourself for your work

What is the best way to motivate yourself for your daily work??

1. Enjoying your work
• When you act as if you love what you do, the positive energy will keeps your interest and focus your work.
•  When we are passionate about what we do, joyful life is just around corner with you.
2.  Having a clear vision
• Keep a clear head stay focused on what you want to achieve!
• What gives us the most energy is the feeling of being totally on top of our work.
3. Work on "KNOWING"
• You may able to explain or articulate why you need to do with your window, common sense, guidance.
• Guiding you in a direction and the path will be clear.

『News』 Learning to sail the ship instead of afraid of storms.

News Link: Armless girl’s struggle a moral story to learn from | My Sinchew:

"ALOR SETAR, Kedah: The unwavering struggle of Huang Zhaoqian, a 7-year-old girl born without arms, to live her life and get an education has captured the attention of Malaysia’s Moral Education Curriculum Committee.

The committee intends to include her story in next year’s Standard One moral education textbook with the hope of encouraging other unfortunate people to live their lives courageously.

Little Zhaoqian and her mother Li Aiyun have agreed to the committee’s proposal. They hope Zhaoqian’s courage and spirit can inspire people not to get discouraged or give up in the face of adversity."

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Sometime we've already got everything we need but we always want more and more.

From the girl, i learn that we will never happy if we continue to search for what needs more than.

She is the best!!

Because she is learning to sail the ship instead of afraid of storms. =)

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

Sometimes we always waiting for the right time, right condition to achieve our target or dream.

But, I would like to tell you the bad news：However you are waiting how long, that is not be significantly different next week, next month or next year. Because that conditions or time have not to be prefect. 

What the truth is:

Becoming educated doesn’t happen in overnight,

but with your whole life to accumulate; 

Every dream is not achieve in short intervals,

 but with stay concentrate on your dream and “Just Begin”.